chore: add Cargo http options to handle download errors

[comphead]

Which issue does this PR close?

• Closes #.

Rationale for this change

CI more and more often fails with HTTP errors, during downloading from Cargo. This leads the entire CI needs to be rerun in the merge queue. Adding retry for Cargo HTTP and network settings.

Example

https://github.com/apache/datafusion/actions/runs/28677739346/job/85055401549?pr=23313

error: failed to get `windows` as a dependency of package `sysinfo v0.39.5`
    ... which satisfies dependency `sysinfo = "^0.39.3"` (locked to 0.39.5) of package `datafusion v54.0.0 (/__w/datafusion/datafusion/datafusion/core)`

Caused by:
  failed to load source for dependency `windows`

Caused by:
  unable to update registry `crates-io`

Caused by:
  download of wi/nd/windows failed

Caused by:
  curl failed

Caused by:
  [55] Failed sending data to the peer (OpenSSL SSL_read: SSL_ERROR_SYSCALL, errno 0)
Error: Process completed with exit code 101.

What changes are included in this PR?

Are these changes tested?

Are there any user-facing changes?

[2010YOUY01]

Thank you.

I'll manually rerun CI several times on this PR, to ensure it solves the issue.

[2010YOUY01]

No network error in 3 CI runs 👍🏼

[comphead]

No network error in 3 CI runs 👍🏼

Thanks @2010YOUY01